For a Woman to love herself well in a world that has trained her not to, is a radical act.
NOW is the time to get radical.
It's up to each of us as to do the inner work that is required to make change happen in the world.
Sisters, It’s time to join the Revelation and REVEAL who you really are.
I was a shell. I had done everything I was told to do. I had followed the unspoken rules society seemed to dictate to me as a woman and I still felt empty and miserable.
I did not realize that what was missing was ME- the true ME. I could recall that I'd once had a courageous voice, big dreams, and passionate desires- but I had NO IDEA where that person was. I had totally become lost to myself, and worse, I had no idea where to begin looking.
By the time I realized that I could not sustain what I now call "surface level living" I was sick, exhausted, anxious, lonely and in a state of low level self-loathing. This forced me into a breakdown of epic proportions which took me on a spiritual odyssey that I now call The Revelation Project.
What was revealed to me was the "training ground" that all women are entranced within as part of living in a patriarchal society. We adopt a way of being with ourselves that actually separates us from our truth and our purpose. We are socialized to deny who we really are in favor of someone who "passes".
We go into hiding as a survival strategy, until we are re-awakened and re-membered.
The Revelation Project is here for exactly that reason. To AWAKEN and help us REMEMBER.
Andrea and I have been transforming the lives of women for years by disrupting the trance of unworthiness and helping to reveal the hidden cultural system that has been holding woman back from living in alignment with truth. We are proud to be able to offer our teachings online so that we can help women all over the world shift into a life of abundance, full self-expression, and soul-filled living. It's time for us to RISE and awaken to the role of the divine feminine in our lives, because our time has come to create a better world for all.
The Revelation Project meets you where you are, so you don't have to be a specific age, color, or size. All that's required is your curiosity and willingness to go outside your comfort zone.
At some point, most of us notice a mental dialogue going on inside our heads that never stops criticizing, comparing, and judging.
This voice is part of the wounded feminine and most of us don't know what that means or why it's even important for us to know why it keeps us from having a life we love.
The elusive nature of it is hidden within the invisible system of the Patriarchy, and if we reveal it, we can heal and live in freedom outside of its confines.
In this course, we will help you reveal the root of its existence, and give you tools and practices to set yourself free and on a luminous path of revelation that will access places inside yourself that hold wisdom, passion, strength and purpose.
Most importantly you will know how to love, cherish and care for yourself in a way that will radically change your life for the better.
One of the greatest lessons you will learn in this course is how to tap into your inner BMS compass (mind-body-spirit) to navigate your relationships with ease instead of experiencing so much struggle- especially the one with yourself. You will learn how to channel your thoughts and actions into life-giving activities that reveal and heal you at a soul level.
In this course, you’ll orient yourself to the world in a new way and practice a wide array of life tools to access your own inner wisdom and unique brilliance.
Most importantly, you will reveal authentic "you"—the indwelling consciousness that is continually revealing what you need for the next step in your evolution.
The intention of this course is to change your entire perspective of life. Every session will challenge you to go beyond yourself, and fall in LOVE.
With great love and respect,
Monica Rodgers (Founder)
"I am not sure what the best part of this course was: the entertaining video lessons, the provocative and eye-opening assignments, the magic that happened during the conference calls, the camaraderie among the participants, or the humor and love that Andrea and Monica deployed continually. I cannot stress enough how important I believe it is for women to connect on this level, both with each other and with ourselves. I will continue to revisit the soul work we did in this class, and I hope to be part of this community for a long time to come. "
"I love the Sorry No More module!! I am a chronic apologizer. I am always trying to make others comfortable. I wrote a long list of my rights! You were correct Monica & Andrea, once I began to notice where i wanted to assert my rights, they all came out and are still coming. "
"Loving Yourself Well has been such an eye opening experience. Monica and Andrea are fantastic facilitators and have a true bond. What I noticed is that I've never had authentic friendships, I had never seen it modeled between women before now. I love all of the Women in LYW and know we will build lasting relationships. "
"I am happy. I am complete. I am grateful. I have so enjoyed traveling on this journey with all of you wonderful and courageous women! I loved hearing your shares, loved getting to know each of you. I appreciate all of us individually for our differences and our similarities. I loved your share at the end Monica, it was the bonus session that reflected what is possible from doing this work and how it not only impacts our immediate relationships, but generations. "
"Fighting cancer made me realize how much I've been living with fear and scarcity which ends up being a very lonely road in life. After the diagnosis I realized that something had to change. Through this work, I've been able to know the difference between giving and receiving and how both need to be in balance! It is wonderful to give but now it's time to also receive! This has been such a healing journey! "
"I loved todays call, hearing what everyone is declaring for their new vision of themselves. While listening I realized how many parts of myself I've been denying. I often lose my lightness, my spirit, my daydreaming self- and that's a big part of who I am. My practical self and my fixer self is useful, and necessary, but she can't take over all the time. I want to access these other parts of myself now that they have been revealed."
"Confession time! This course has really helped me check in mentally-about what it is to really loving myself well. Until now, I had no idea what that even meant or how to do it. Each week I've now practicing as i'm learning skills and implementing them into my Life. I'm being pushed into new directions that I've never dreamed and because of this course I'm seeing something really important. I have always pushed myself so hard in life, a bit of an anal retentive perfectionist and I expect a lot of myself (too much). I help everyone else and then push myself to get everything done and many times ignore my own needs and desires- hell many times I haven't even know what my needs and desires are... and yet, now not only am I'm starting to be aware, I'm actually making changes. "
Over the course of 12 weeks you will dive into the realm of Loving Yourself Well. You can journey on your own, or decide to share your revelations in our private facebook group with with an amazing sisterhood of other couregeous women.
Reveal -learn how to claim space, set intentions, and listen in to the messages of your body.
Reckon - Learn how to surface the TRUTH of your experience and explore tools that help you practice honoring what you know to BE true.
Reflect - Gain insights that help you understand what direction you want to head and see where you've been buying into social conditioning.
Recover - Learn how to take back your power and practice claiming a new way of being.
Re-Author - There's a narrative that needs to shift and a new storyline to reveal.
Reclaim - There are so many self celebration practices to explore and don't be surprised if you start finding levity, laughter, and love everywhere you look.
Revolution - Who are you now? Activate your truth in the world, and be amazed at what you are now capable of manifesting.
This path requires courage:
We ask you to dig deep and honor your SELF in ways that might feel foreign at first, but you are not alone. We have brought many women through this experience and they have completed as fast friends with a deep love and appreciation for the content, the sisterhood and the conversation.
We provide guidance, courageous and confidential space and a wealth of experience working with women from all walks of life.
We are going to walk beside you on this path to help you get back home, but ultimately deliver you back to your true self. Prepare for a revealing and beautiful journey,
In a patriarchal society a woman splits from her feminine nature in her effort to be acceptable. Often, our own Mothers are unable to assist us with our split, as they too are often split themselves, creating a generational wound that goes unrevealed and unhealed. By the time we reach adulthood, most women have experienced the complex and frustrating world of double standards, expectations, self-doubt, and alienation. Most tragically, we are unable to see the narrative of the patriarchy at play dictating the impossible standards that we must live up to: Be attractive, be a lady, be unselfish or of service, make relationships work, and be competent without complaint.
As young girls we were full of life and vitality. We were bold, expressed our opinions, explored the natural world and shared our optimism freely. As we entered adolescence we shifted into mere shadows of our former selves. We were trained to deny our true gifts and adopted false selves in order to please others. The parts of un that we believed were unacceptable were hidden, and eventually withered from lack of attention. We became female impersonators who learned to fit our whole selves into small crowded spaces. Once vibrant and confident, we became shy and doubting women. Instead of asking ourselves "Who am I am what do I want? " we started thinking "What must I do to please others?" As a young female we learned to please, perfrom and placate. We also learned to devalue our glorious female form in all of it's shapes and sizes.
We are fed a steady diet from the media of sexualization and objectification. There is such convert and overt contempt for the feminine in our society, it is difficult for any woman to feel comfortable and proud herself, As a result, we de-self trying to conform to cultural images of the "ideal" female in order to belong. In doing so, we no longer belong to ourselves, and eventually submit to living inside the trance as a means of survival.
We are here NOW to awaken from this trance of unworthiness, reclaim our voices, witness one another, and reveal the TRUTH of who we are.
Some of the symptoms that might indicate that this course would be a good fit:
Toxic or unhealthy relationships with people who hurt you.
Self criticism and comparison.
Feelings of Loneliness.
Often scattered and overwhelmed.
Often sick, or dealing with chronic illness.
Feeling like nothing ever goes your way.
A lack of purpose.
Negative self talk.
Unable to make decisions with confidence.
Busy, exhausted and anxious.
"I'm giving myself permission to know that this is what life looks like when everything is realigning in order to better serve me moving forward, vs. abusing myself about why life feels chaotic and daunting and reverting into cynical thoughts and commentary from my inner critics. I give myself permission to sit them all down on the couch with washrags stuffed in their mouths so that they can quietly support me vs. hurl hurtful insults while pointing their fingers at me telling me " I told you so!" and " why can't you just..." I'm giving myself permission to remind myself how much love, support and abundance surrounds me and to whisper loving acknowledgments to myself like "you've got this" "Yep! I'm so loving the permission slips right now! "
"I dared to have a difficult conversation with my Aunt last week. I told her that I wanted to be transparent with her and that I did not want to hurt her feelings and that while I'm grateful for her generous offer to come visit her. I told her that I was struggling with the decision because the truth is, I really feel the need to go see my Dad. I was so nervous about how she would react and told her I was afraid of disappointing her. How she reacted is that she said she understood! Not only that- but when I spoke with her a day later, she THANKED ME, for being so open and transparent with her. She said she really appreciated it! WOW! Then I thanked her for thanking me! It was a big ol' love fest! "
The Loving Yourself Well Curriculum will give you tools that will travel with you forever. Tools that you will be able to use right away and in 20 years.
Tools That Will Transform You!
LYW curriculum includes 12 modules of video content to explore at your own pace. Printable PFD's will be available to download in each module as companion materials and journal prompts if you are someone who likes to write.
You'll be invited to our private facebook group (optional) where you can share insights and revelations with a sisterhood of women who are practicing this work.
The group experience on Facebook is a wonderful gathering space for sharing insights with one another. This is a private and confidential group and our goal is to create a courageous space for our shared sisterhood. We can't wait to greet you there!
The first step in your journey to Self Love is knowing your rights.
As a Woman, Never be confused about what you deserve, or how you should be treated, ever again.
I didn't know I had the right to speak my truth. I didn't know that I had been socialized to expect less than I deserve.