YOU’VE BEEN CONDITIONED BY A PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY to conform to a way of being that is designed to keep you disconnected from the truth.
It’s time for you to join the Revelation and REVEAL who you really are.
For Women to love themselves well in a world that has trained them not to, is a radical act.
I had done all the things I was taught and told to do. I had followed the unspoken "rules" and had all the things that made the picture pretty (picket fence, husband, family, career) but what I was missing was the real me...the true me.
By the time I realized that I could not sustain living this way, I was sick, exhausted, anxious, lonely and depressed. This forced me into a journey that revealed what would change my perspective and life forever.
I want to guide you down the path and help you surface your own strength and truth that will ultimately help you rebuild the foundation of your life - without you needing to hit rock-bottom to do it.
Andrea and I have been transforming the lives of women for years by disrupting the trance of unworthiness and helping to reveal the hidden cultural system that has been holding us back from living in alignment with truth. For the first time ever we have decided to offer our teachings online so that we can help women all over the world shift into a life of abundance, full self-expression, and soul-filled living.
“In case you haven’t noticed, you have a mental dialogue going on inside your head that never stops which criticizes, compares and judges you at every turn."
This voice is part of the wounded feminine aspect of your soul that wants you to heal, and reveal the truth of who you are, so that you can live the life you know is possible, but that currently eludes you.
The elusive nature of this truth is hidden within the invisible system of the Patriarchy, and like all women you must reveal it, before you can heal it and operate outside of its confines.
In this course, we will help you reveal the root cause of its existence, and give you tools and practices to set yourself free and on a luminous path of revelation that will access places inside yourself that hold wisdom, passion, strength and purpose.
One of the greatest lessons you will learn in this course is how to tap into your inner BMS compass (mind-body-spirit) to navigate your relationships with ease instead of experiencing so much struggle- especially the one with yourself. You will learn how to channel your thoughts and actions into more life-giving activities that reveal and heal your heart a core level enabling you to live a life you love, and the ability to cherish yourself as the unique being that you are.
We will see that the most effective personal growth technique is to use the container of The Revelation Project to remove your inner blockages, not compensate for them.
In this course, you’ll learn about your true relationship to the world unfolding around you and to the thoughts and emotions arising within you as your access to wisdom and freedom as a woman instead of suppressing them, which is what we have been conditioned to believe as women. Most importantly, you will come into touch with the real "you"—the indwelling consciousness that is continually revealing to you what you need for this next step in your evolution.
The intention of this course is to change your entire perspective of life. Every session will challenge you to go beyond yourself.
With great love and respect,
"I am not sure what the best part of this course was: the entertaining video lessons, the provocative and eye-opening assignments, the magic that happened during the conference calls, the camaraderie among the participants, or the humor and love that Andrea and Monica deployed continually. I cannot stress enough how important I believe it is for women to connect on this level, both with each other and with ourselves. I will continue to revisit the soul work we did in this class, and I hope to be part of this community for a long time to come. "
"I love the Sorry No More module!! I am a chronic apologizer. I am always trying to make others comfortable. I wrote a long list of my rights! You were correct Monica & Andrea, once I began to notice where i wanted to assert my rights, they all came out and are still coming. "
"Loving Yourself Well has been such an eye opening experience. Monica and Andrea are fantastic facilitators and have a true bond. What I noticed is that I've never had authentic friendships, I had never seen it modeled between women before now. I love all of the Women in LYW and know we will build lasting relationships. "
"I am happy. I am complete. I am grateful. I have so enjoyed traveling on this journey with all of you wonderful and courageous women! I loved hearing your shares, loved getting to know each of you. I appreciate all of us individually for our differences and our similarities. I loved your share at the end Monica, it was the bonus session that reflected what is possible from doing this work and how it not only impacts our immediate relationships, but generations. "
"Fighting cancer made me realize how much I've been living with fear and scarcity which ends up being a very lonely road in life. After the diagnosis I realized that something had to change. Through this work, I've been able to know the difference between giving and receiving and how both need to be in balance! It is wonderful to give but now it's time to also receive! This has been such a healing journey! "
"I loved todays call, hearing what everyone is declaring for their new vision of themselves. While listening I realized how many parts of myself I've been denying. I often lose my lightness, my spirit, my daydreaming self- and that's a big part of who I am. My practical self and my fixer self is useful, and necessary, but she can't take over all the time. I want to access these other parts of myself now that they have been revealed."
"Confession time! This course has really helped me check in mentally-about what it is to really loving myself well. Until now, I had no idea what that even meant or how to do it. Each week I've now practicing as i'm learning skills and implementing them into my Life. I'm being pushed into new directions that I've never dreamed and because of this course I'm seeing something really important. I have always pushed myself so hard in life, a bit of an anal retentive perfectionist and I expect a lot of myself (too much). I help everyone else and then push myself to get everything done and many times ignore my own needs and desires- hell many times I haven't even know what my needs and desires are... and yet, now not only am I'm starting to be aware, I'm actually making changes. "
Over the course of these next 12 weeks you can expect to dig deep into the following sections:
Reveal - How did you get here?
Reckon - What do you need to face?
Reflect - Unpack the upset.
Recover - Take back your power.
Re-Author - Love yourself well.
Reclaim - Celebrate you.
Revolution - Activate your truth.
This path isn't for the faint of heart. We ask you to dig deep and get to the root of issues long buried. We provide guidance, courageous and confidential space and a wealth of experience working with women from all walks of life.
We are going to walk beside you on this path to help you, but ultimately deliver you back to your true self.
It’s hard because this way of being has never been modeled for us, how to be in a healthy and loving relationship with ourselves and then from that foundation of self-love, be in healthy relationships with others.
When we are living a life that is misaligned with our inner truth, we will continue to attract that same old story and the same circumstances that have us feeling profoundly unfulfilled.
Some of the symptoms of the wounded feminine:
Toxic or unhealthy relationships with the same types of people.
Feelings of Loneliness.
Irritable and overwhelmed.
Illness & disease.
Feeling like a victim and like nothing ever goes your way.
Having a lack of purpose.
Busy, exhausted and anxious.
"I'm giving myself permission to know that this is what life looks like when everything is realigning in order to better serve me moving forward, vs. abusing myself about why life feels chaotic and daunting and reverting into cynical thoughts and commentary from my inner critics. I give myself permission to sit them all down on the couch with washrags stuffed in their mouths so that they can quietly support me vs. hurl hurtful insults while pointing their fingers at me telling me " I told you so!" and " why can't you just..." I'm giving myself permission to remind myself how much love, support and abundance surrounds me and to whisper loving acknowledgments to myself like "you've got this" "Yep! I'm so loving the permission slips right now! "
"I dared to have a difficult conversation with my Aunt last week. I told her that I wanted to be transparent with her and that I did not want to hurt her feelings and that while I'm grateful for her generous offer to come visit her. I told her that I was struggling with the decision because the truth is, I really feel the need to go see my Dad. I was so nervous about how she would react and told her I was afraid of disappointing her. How she reacted is that she said she understood! Not only that- but when I spoke with her a day later, she THANKED ME, for being so open and transparent with her. She said she really appreciated it! WOW! Then I thanked her for thanking me! It was a big ol' love fest! "
We will assess the topography of your life and reveal what's working and what's not.
The Loving Yourself Well Curriculum will give you tools that will travel with you forever. Tools that you will be able to use right away and in 20 years.
Tools That Will Transform You!
LYW curriculum includes 12 modules of video content to explore at your own pace. Printable PFD's and workbooks will be available to download in each module.
You'll be prompted to explore, reveal and share your insights and revelations with the Facebook Group. The more you share inside that group the more you will reveal and heal.
The group experience on Facebook is a wonderful gathering space for sharing insights with one another. This is a private and confidential group and our goal is to create a courageous space for our sisterhood.
The first step in your journey to Self Love is knowing your rights.
As a Woman, Never be confused about what you deserve, or how you should be treated, ever again.
I didn't know I had the right to speak my truth. I didn't know that I had been socialized to expect less than I deserve.