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Podcast Episode 10 Andrea Willets - A Love Story

On today's episode, we're turning the tables a little bit and Monica is interviewing Andrea.

We talk about Andrea's background and how she has harnessed self-love and makes her unapologetic presence in the world.

Andrea Willets grew up in a blended family with 9 kids. She talks about her upbringing, her relationship with her siblings, what it has been like to find and participate in The Revelation Project, how she has healed from codependency and more.

 

"In my childhood there was some real joy and some real struggle." - Andrea Willets

Show Notes:

  • What it's like to have a sibling with Down Syndrome
  • How to redefine relationships with siblings
  • How to love yourself
  • The importance of modeling
  • What is the Revelation Project
  • How to come out of a divorce
  • Why should we get curious
  • The importance of putting yourself first
  • How to heal from co-dependence
  • When...
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Podcast Episode 09 Sorry, No More! Notes From A Recovering Apology Addict

Hey! It's Andrea here.

On today's episode I'm riding solo, and I'm talking about saying SORRY.

I grew up saying "I'm sorry" all the time, maybe you did too. We overuse this word all the time, but is it actually a masking of other emotions?

If we uncover what is going on below the apology, we can reveal what actually needs healing.

Listen as I share about apologizing archetypes, what we might be covering up by saying "sorry", the guidelines for a proper apology, and more.

You can Subscribe and Listen to the Podcast on Apple Podcasts. And be sure to leave us a Rating and Review!

"This overuse of 'I'm sorry' is the replacement for the real conversation." - Andrea Willets

 Show Notes:

  • When to apologize
  • What are the apologizing personality types?
  • What's at risk when we say "I'm sorry"
  • What are you apologizing for?
  • When to ask for forgiveness
  • How to apologize
  • What the guidelines for a proper apology are
  • What to do instead of apologizing

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Seven Symptoms of Spiritual Death

The contrast of life has always fascinated me.

Death and rebirth are two sides of one cycle of life that can be experienced in multiple realms. In a physical sense, we all eventually die a literal death, but I see its process mirrored in nature as the season of winter blankets the ground and everything goes dormant and into hibernation, including us! 

Death in the spiritual sense can be hard for me to identify right away. Instead, I usually think I'm losing it until I recognize what's actually happening. Recently I had such an experience where I suddenly felt like the world as I knew was being turned upside down, and while I had already felt a sense of inner shifting, this event really accelerated the process, threatening my whole world order. 

With so much inner work over the years, I've noticed my ability to be much more at ease with this apparent chaos. If I can remember to allow myself to be in the discomfort of whats...

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Podcast Episode 08 Vanessa Ryerse - Upsetting the Trance of Unworthiness

We are so excited to have our guest, Vanessa Ryerse, on today's show with us!

We first connected with Vanessa after we heard her interviewed on The RobCast with Rob Bell. Monica reached out because what she heard Vanessa say took her breath away (more to be revealed in the episode!).

Vanessa was raised inside the purity culture in a fundamentalist Evangelical community where women couldn't become pastors or lead in churches. Vanessa is now an ordained pastor for a church she and her husband founded, Vintage Fellowship.

She joins us on the show as we talk about stepping into our power as women, connecting with our spirituality, the divine, faith, embracing anger, cultivating creativity and more.

In celebration of our podcast launch, Andrea and I would like to extend a special offer for $100 off our Loving Yourself Well online coaching circle.  Please go to jointherevelation.com and enter PODCAST100 at the checkout.

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Podcast Episode 07 What is Love?

Love means different things to different people, but love is an essential pillar of our relationships.

It turns out that when Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines love, it mostly defines sexual romantic love or "to feel something more than like". But for us, we want to take a deep dive into the different types of love that we experience.

How are you loving and how are you being loved? If you ask yourself this question, much will be revealed.

On today's episode, we talk about love languages and how we give and receive love.  We talk about love for friends, romantic love, the fluidity of love as an energy and much more.

In celebration of our podcast launch, Andrea and I would like to extend a special offer for $100 off our Loving Yourself Well online coaching circle.  Please go to jointherevelation.com and enter PODCAST100 at the checkout.

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Podcast Episode 06 Revealing Spirit - Pt. 2

When it comes to Spirit and the many ways we relate to, and express our spirituality, there is much to talk about and reveal. 

If you haven't listened to the last episode on Revealing Spirit Pt. 1, then we encourage you to do that.

In this episode , we continue with our discussion on soul-diving and what is required for us to dive into the unknown and live below the surface of our lives. We talk about reframing and reinterpreting our tension and suffering as invitations and access points to discover personal truth, the balancing of masculine and feminine energies, breaking away from societal expectations and so much more.

In celebration of our podcast launch, Andrea and I would like to extend a special offer for $100 off our Loving Yourself Well online coaching circle.  Please go to jointherevelation.com and enter PODCAST100 at the checkout.

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Podcast Episode 05 Revealing Spirit - Pt. 1

Today's episode is about revealing spirit.

We talk about the religious and spiritual backgrounds that we grew up with, and how we've re-found a different sense of spirituality as adults. What type of religious and spiritual background did you grow up with?

This show is about recognizing what spirituality is, how and why to let go of the ego, finding the divine, the relationship between gender and spirituality and more.

And in celebration of our podcast launch, Andrea and I would like to extend a special offer for $100 off our Loving Yourself Well e-course. Please go to jointherevelation.com and enter PODCAST100 at the checkout.

"I had to almost lose my life to choose my life." - Monica Rodgers

Show Notes:

  • What is the trance of unworthiness
  • What religious background did you grow up with?
  • Why we personify God as male
  • What is spirituality
  • How shadows work
  • What...
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The Tension Between Separation And Belonging.

What is the opposite of belonging, is it loneliness or is it separation?

The Revelation Project has had much conversation about this and we have chosen to frame it by using  the tension between Separation & Belonging.

When we refer to tension,” we are speaking to the energetic polarity between the two, which actually guarantees the reality of separation and belonging. In other words, one cannot exist without the other. If there was no contrast, then we would have nothing to push up against for comparison. Without light there is no darkness, and without darkness there is no light. To take you further into the distinction, we are choosing separation as the opposite of belonging because it is the neutral/natural opposite.

Separation is not good or bad, it simply means a separation between one thing and another.  Likewise, belonging is not good or bad, it simply means, being a part of something. Whereas, loneliness leans into a human...

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Podcast Episode 04 The Importance of Boundaries

Today, we're talking about the art of setting boundaries.

Boundaries are at the heart of self love. When we set up healthy boundaries, we are respecting ourselves and showing everyone else how to be in relationship with us.

On today's show, we talk about what boundaries are, why intolerance and passive aggressiveness are clues that a person needs better boundaries, how our family illuminates our relationship with boundaries, and so much more.

And in celebration of our podcast launch, Andrea and I would like to extend a special offer for $100 off our Loving Yourself Well e-course. Please go to jointherevelation.com and enter PODCAST100 at the checkout.

"If I'm withholding and not saying how I'm feeling then I'm actually jeopardizing not just my own integrity but the integrity of the relationship too.” - Andrea Willets

Show Notes:

  • What are...
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Podcast Episode 03 The Training Ground of Social Conditioning

We're so excited to talk all about "the training ground" on today's episode of The Revelation Project.

The training ground is another way to talk about how we were all raised or socialized as children and adolescence. Women especially are taught to become entranced in unworthiness by living on the surface of life. In order to heal, we must be aware of how we were consciously or unconsciously taught to behave in the world. Does what we learned during "the training ground" serve us to be our best selves today?

On today's episode, we go deeper into what the training ground is, our desire to belong, how we place gendered expectations on ourselves, the stories we tell ourselves that are not true, and much more.

We hope you enjoy the episode!

"Often as humans, we need to belong. We want to belong. We want to be loved. We want to know that we're enough and that...

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